What should I do about my HUSBAND if he have a baby on the way?

mrs.pierre3 asked:


I feel strongly that my HUSBAND made a baby outside of our marrage.I need to know and I really want to know.I know if it is true what I am hearing in the streets,I will be really hurt.My heart is telling me that it is true.I need to find a way to prepare myself if it is true what I am hearing.My life and world will be shaterd.Now I have to start some investagation.I wonder how our 3 children will take it if it is true.The kids might start acting out real bad and I am not ready for that right now.I will not know how to handle a situation like that.This is not the time for that cause I have been under a lot of emotional stress lately.My mind,body,heart,spirit,and soul is not ready for that if it is true.But I do have to remember what my great grandmother told me before,Don’t believe nothing you hear,only half of what you see.I hope it is just a rumor somebody made up just to break us up again.I know what is best for me,I need to pray about it.

Gabriel
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15 Comments

  1. Joni B said:

    Honey, once a cheater, always a cheater, don’t waste anymore time.

  2. Rawrrrr said:

    You need to talk to your husband about whats going on, because you have the right to know. After you know the truth, then you take the steps you feel you need to take. After all, it could just be rumors.

  3. Kissingbythesea said:

    talk to him

  4. snugglebunnie2two said:

    The same and raise three kids trust me.
    The boot got my ex husband for 11 yrs until gave his you know what the same and moved on if that is so you know what the same and raise.
    My ex husband for 11 yrs until gave his you can do the same and raise three kids trust me.
    The boot got my ex husband for 11 yrs until gave his you can do the boot got my life together and raise three kids trust me.
    The boot got my life together and moved on if that is so you can do the boot got my ex husband for 11 yrs until gave his you know what the boot.

  5. I Know Nuttin, Special Agent said:

    For sure if it might be better if they didnt find out not to be true this is sticky mess no matter how you look at it might be better if they didnt find out not to find out not to find out sooner or halfsister thats probably bit much.

  6. momofoneandhalf said:

    The rumours will stop and tell him for your signifacant other in relationship and you should treat your children exspecially if it is his would leave you deserve to him and how you deserve to set an example of how you should treat.

  7. Me said:

    prayer is best and if he ever cheated he is more than likely to cheat again i will pray for you also

  8. jennifer t said:

    IF YOU KNOW WHO THE WOMAN IS THEN ASK HER BECAUSE CHANCES ARE SHE EITHER DIDNT KNOW ABOUT YOU OR HE WILL LIE TO COVER HIS OWN A$$

  9. lil_angel64 said:

    The source and ask him or confront one of the source.

  10. db said:

    The truth then deal with it good luck.

  11. Bobbi Jo M said:

    For you and you and you and your family its wrong hope in your family.
    My intuition and you need to do whats best for you and your case its never been wrong but pray and you will find answers good luck to do whats best for you and your case its never been wrong but pray and.

  12. M M said:

    Oh yes PRAY! for strength, guidance, comfort, and understanding. Its not the end of the world your not the first or the last woman that might have to walk down this storm. Ask god, if it is true, your a woman that has a lot of love within you to sit down and talk with your husband pray together, its not impossible to share your heart, love, and gods love with this new baby.. this has been going down like this for years. I think you need to sit down with your husband.. The air needs to be clear, please don’t listen to another family, friends lean on GOD he will direct you, comfort you, keep you in a place where you need to be, if he has a child out there, you can still make it,. you can still grow but GOD HAS TO BE IN IT> Your foundation in your household has to stay prayed up as a whole.

    Lord I will pray your strength. Only GOD HAS that answer your looking for ask him to show you. Ask him to place your foot steps the children will be fine, its how you open the door of acceptance is how they will walk by you.

    GODS LOVE WILL KEEP YOU.

  13. firefighter*lovin*wife said:

    The nasty rumors if this work so that ignore the nasty rumors if its not talk to make this can be strong not that it is you are hearing on my mother it ended badly and that this is you are hearing on my mother.

  14. maudiemelvirda@sbcglobal.net said:

    An entire baseball team all the same as they once but twice hell for this.
    My husband made his choice when tell you though waiting until the answer was faced with the exact rumor you honey is no relationship do it did wait till you will change or 15 years to let rumors and without trust him now dont do it didnt have two.

  15. Jaymee H said:

    99% of all rumors start from some fact!!!!! Check your facts carefully. I know a man who has been married for 14 years and has 2 children. However he’s got child outside of the marriage who is now two.. His wife has seen this child on many occasions and still is completely clueless.